Start every day off with a smile and get it over with.
W. C. Fields
Empowering daily routines are what drive success. I recently did an inventory of my daily activities and concluded that they could be tweaked to add a little bit more enjoyment and productivity to my existence. I realized that I was a little slow coming out of the starting gate (I grew up around thoroughbred races and my dad always emphasized the need to get off to a good start in horse racing and in life). I wasn’t accomplishing much in the morning and that led to a sluggishness feeling that was staying with me throughout the day. I’m self employed so I have a lot of latitude as to how I structure my day. The ideal day begins with a mix of writing, contemplation and planning. I need a certain amount of solitude with no interruptions before I’m ready to engage with people and take on the world. I decided to wake up a little earlier (4:45) and see if I could find a coffee shop nearby (too much hustle and bustle at home; Kathy is also an early riser and our condo just isn’t big enough for the desired early morning solitude). After checking out 7 local coffee shops, I found one that opens at 5:30 and it a perfect fit for my needs (comfortable chair, good lighting and low unobtrusive background music). I basically get the place to myself for about 2 hours. It is amazing the amount of creative work one can accomplish if one is allowed to focus with no interruptions. I’m getting so much more done and the feeling of accomplishment energizes me for the rest of the day.
I enjoy learning about psychometrics or personality profiling tests that can provide insights into our true nature. The Myers Briggs test (measures psychological preferences in how people perceive the world and make decisions) and the Enneagram (a model of human personality using the teachings of G.I. Gurdjieff – Russian spiritualist) are two that come to mind. The shortcomings of both systems is that they pigeon hole people into narrow arbitrary categories which to my way of thinking is way too simplistic. As an example I’m an introvert but most of my life I’ve made my living in professions that require a high degree of extrovertism (marketing, sales, promotion, lecturing/public speaking etc). People who don’t know me well would be surprised that I test out as a strong introvert. Kathy who makes her living travelling the country promoting and recommending quality children’s literature is also deemed an introvert. A large part of her job is schmoozing and socializing which is somewhat out of character for an introvert. So I think that the process to accurately profile people has to be a little bit more complicated and sophisticated than these tests would lead you to believe.
I did come across a profiling system that acknowledges the complexity of trying to arbitrary classify people into a limited number of slots. The Hermann Brain Dominance Instrument is an assessment tool that has participants answer a series of questions that doesn’t categorize people by personality but attempts to show which of four (as defined below) brain quadrants they tend to use more often:
- The A quadrant (cerebral/left hemisphere) relates to analytic thinking (collecting data, understanding how things work etc.)
- The B quadrant (limbic left hemisphere) relates to implementation thinking (organizing and following directions, for example).
- The C quadrant (limbic right hemisphere) relates to social thinking (expressing ideas, seeking personal meaning).
- The D quadrant (cerebral right hemisphere) relates to future thinking (looking at the big picture, thinking in metaphors).
The Hermann Brain Dominance Instrument acknowledges that everyone is capable of using each of these thinking styles. It tries to indicate or determine which of these styles is dominant in any individual. If you understood how individuals mentally approach tasks, it might help you grasp how effective people are at work, play or any other pursuit. I am not sure that any profiling test has all the answers but I do find the different approaches fascinating.
Perhaps there are as many different personalities as there are people on the planet. That’s the most open minded approach and prevents you from mistakenly type casting people.
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I’ve known many introverted people who are successful in the ‘public’ world.
Just like any classification system, you are probably more dominant in certain areas but doesn’t mean you don’t have traits or can adapt to the other areas. I’m pretty sure I would test as an extrovert, but there are certainly times I enjoy my ‘me’ time too.
I have taken a few ‘personality’ profiles and they have been pretty accurate; at least to how I vision myself.
Interesting stuff; I want to get better at interpreting body language…that’s my next gig.
Bill Dorman recently posted..2 seconds from oblivion
Hi Bill,
I suspect being the good salesman that you are, you intuitively have a good grasp of body language. I remember once being videotaped at a meeting and was shocked by the hostile vibes I emitted when things weren’t going my way. So getting a handle on your own body language has to be a valuable asset.
Riley
riley harrison recently posted..GOOD START, GOOD DAY; BAD START, ???????
Hi Riley,
I’ve mentioned this before, but here’s the fuller storey:
I was already in my late 30′s when I took a test in a university class, a test that grouped people into six areas such as investigative and social. So before we got our results papers back, to keep us from being lost in our reading, we were to go join our group to discuss. As a communicative reader-writer in the human service field, I joined the social.
It was when we got our papers back that I learned I was artistic. (It said I could be an advertising executive) Whoah! That suddenly explained a lot of my life! …But what a big thing to not know. I believe I was the only guy to go to the wrong group. Yes, I was in denial. Not now.
…Meanwhile, two nights ago at my toastmaster club someone did a speech saying to start the day right by, for example, making your bed. So for the end of the night, during “any announcements?” i got us laughing by saying the trick is to do like me, and have a folding Murphy wall bed. Then you just need to cram stuff under the velcro strap, make sure your pillow is under too, and presto! It’s up out of sight and you don’t even need to make your bed!
…I’m like you, not only for my weekends but for my day job too: I hit the coffee shop for at least 1 or 2 hours before work. Every knows I go there; they see me when they go in for a “to go” cup.
When my sister was a single mother she liked such morning times the best.
sean crawford recently posted..Stupid On-line University
Hi Sean,
I really value my morning time. I don’t know whether it’s the time of day, solitude or the amount of coffee drank but I really get to a good place. I’m a big fan and supporter of Toastmasters. The Toastmaster’s experience was really a life altering mechanism for me. Such a supportive environment for those who lack confidence in public speaking.
Riley
riley harrison recently posted..GOOD START, GOOD DAY; BAD START, ???????
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Arthur,
I have a background in marketing so I appreciate what you say but I’m not willing to expend any more energy and time to blogging.
Riley